how to know if a girl likes you

3. She does specific issues whenever you’re in a gaggle setting

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While you’re working up your courage, try to spend time with her and flirt. Fear of rejection will keep you waiting a long time, or forever. She might compliment you, or try to impress you by talking about her skills and interests.

The reaction she has when you say hello and she’s talking with another guy will tell you whether she likes you or not. – If she’s shy, she’ll want to stay in the conversation and prolong the time you have together, but she may not seem that enthusiastic. If she just holds an object tightly and gives you fleeting eye contact, then that’s not really a sign of anything.

Yet women can sometimes be quite hard to figure out, even when we think we’re making things blatantly obvious to the guy we’re into. Look at how a girl acts around you to tell if she’s attracted to you.

Here are 30 obvious signs to help you decode her actions and find out if a girl is interested in you. As a love advisor for over 30 thousand women , Renee still works 1-2-1 with men and couples to help them cultivate strong, healthy relationships. Renee is often called to present as a relationship expert for Channel 7, Channel 10, SBS, talkshows, podcasts and commercial radio globally. Taking control of the dates you have with a girl doesn’t always mean you have to be the first to do everything, and if you give her a chance to meet you halfway it will really help you get an idea if she is into you or playing you.

  • A girl comes up to you to introduce herself, but she is stuttering and unable to find the right words to say.
  • A sure sign is also if fidgets with something while she’s talking to you.
  • If she is smiling when she does it, you are one lucky guy.
  • If she replies fast and yet, all her responses aren’t your usual “hey” or “umm, okay,” then you bet she definitely likes talking to you.
  • I met this girl during the blood moon 2 weeks ago and spent the entire day/night with her in her garden and in her house, we shared a lot of stories and turns out we have a lot in common, told some funny stories had a few belly laughs.

When a girl is showing you with her body that she is into you, then you need to take it as it is! Experts tell us straight up, if any women is inviting you into her space she likes you. If this girl is talking about anything in the future, it’s another sweet signal she has a crush on you. When a girl makes a point of letting you know when she notices you have put effort into your look, that’s a great sign.

If you don’t like someone who likes you, don’t just ignore them as this can be very painful. Don’t read too much into her response time to your texts. You can’t force a girl to fall in love with you. It means she either likes you or wants to be your friend. If you ask her a direct question and she doesn’t respond at all, you can take that as a sign that she’s not interested.

10. She makes plans with you

…it means you’re on her mind and she wants to be in contact with you. Look out for the one word responses with a period after them. If you’re getting those from a girl, you might want to take a step back. If you’ve already read our post on personal questions to ask a girl you know the importance that asking questions has. There’s an old phrase about why people copy each other: imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. So, if you’ve been consistently hanging out with a girl for 5-6 weeks, and she still doesn’t want to hang out with just you when you ask, she may only want to be friends.

Notice how much she stares at you when she thinks you are not looking. So, if you see her being more extroverted on social media (when she isn’t before you are following her), that might be a great sign. If she actively likes, retweets, or interacts with your social media posts, she is interested in getting to know you just a little bit more. If she texts you hearts and other romantic-themed emojis, that can be a reflection of where she wants this relationship to go. Women have a neat trick right up their sleeves. They orchestrate situations where you can help her out.

Have you ever heard of the phrase, “Gatsby-ing?” It is like being “extra loud” on social media by posting the most exciting tidbits of your life to get your crush to notice you. If she replies fast and yet, all her responses aren’t your usual “hey” or “umm, okay,” then you bet she definitely likes talking to you. Does she give you a side-eye whenever you speak to a girl?